Being a Conscious Psychic Website Finder

The title of this journal entry goes to the basic question foundational to this website. "What does it mean to be conscious?" and collaterally, "What does it mean to be a Conscious Single?" (It is the first companion to On Being A Conscious Single)

I was interested in continuing to meander about the essential life goal of finding the right psychic website after spending a week at the Siesta Key beach where I took a much needed break. The only struggle I had early on in the vacation week was how not to think about the website. Things here at Conscious Singles are in transition with the staff and we are still, I think, struggling to find the right note for creating a community for connection and support. The financial picture is some better but still not great.

And in continuing to be a half full perspectivist, things at the site are basically great given that everything works pretty well, it is continuing to be a focal point for my spiritual and personal growth, and the deepenings lately I have had with Whit and Kris have been delicious.

Walking the beach is a great balm for my soul and it gave a natural/spiritual backdrop to the question of which psychic website I could choose to click on in the moment to moments of my life. If it is not obvious, I am smitten with God, and firmly believe in the notion that love is the basic fabric of the universe. So, it is incumbent upon me to be in love more, than not, in my moments or momentary psychic websites to continue the analogy.

As I was sitting to write about this I was thinking about the paradox and illusion of our existence in that we experience ourselves fundamentally as separate yet the spiritual reality is that we are one. So my spiritual practices are about helping me to redo my default setting or favorite bookmarks of my consciousness so that I remember what I keep forgetting. And as I remember, I click on love. And as I remember, it is easier to click on love. (Not love only but other good feelings too like joy, peace, ecstasy, etc.)

The goal of my personal growth is doing the interior redecorating I need to do so that the psychic websites, that are in the "folders of separated reality", are happier and more secure. As I mentioned earlier, I don't think that we can leapfrog the "folders of separated reality" which are ego controlled. I think psychotherapy and spiritual practices can offer a simple map for finding more good websites to go to and make it easier not to get triggered to and or unconsciously default to crummy ones. This may be simple though it is not always, or even usually easy, and furthermore requires work-more often than not, long-term work.

Being conscious in regard to psychic websites has two functional meanings. One meaning is the function of being conscious in the act of being aware. That in order to have some direction in what psychic websites I surf in my consciousness, I need to be able to make note of which one is clicked on so that I can click onto another one. This is similar to the idea I wrote about a while ago on Being In The Seats and On Being Aware.

An important aspect for me in regard to this aspect of awareness is to practice patience and compassion with myself. This is similar and different than Buddhist mindfulness which encourages the mediator to notice when thoughts have strayed from the breath and to simply go back to the breath. For me, it is important to accept that it is virtually hardwired for part of me to struggle, for personal and spiritual reasons, with staying on good websites. So it is important for me to have compassion with myself as I notice that I am yet again in an anxious, insecure or angry psychic website.

The good websites are described wonderfully by many like Deepak in The Path to Love:

"You were created to be completely loved and completely lovable your whole life." (pg. 2)

"When you perceive yourself as spirit, you will not simply feel love-you will be love." (pg 11)

These are pretty supercalafragalistic places to click on. Again simple in their obviousness, difficult to fully resonate with and stay in.

The second aspect of Being Conscious in clicking on the right psychic websites is the act of clicking itself. Being conscious means that I am, once I am in the seats enough to recognize that I am on a psychic website and I want to move to another one, that I deliberately and with intentionality click on another one.

There are many ways to do this. For me the best click methods of late have been reading inspiring reminders and doing spiritual practices. I am drawn to Deepak and Neale Walsch's word and the practices of Sufism and Jewish Renewal primarily right now.

Sufism and Jewish Renewal draw me because of the experiential nature of the practices that involve all of me. Dances of Universal Peace, which come out of the Sufi tradition, have been described as body prayer. Practices like going to the dances and chanting are based on the notion that vibration and movement are paths to Gods' websites and intentionally doing them will click God on. Again, there are many others that use light breath etc.

(I would love to know path or paths you are juiced by in terms of Being A Conscious Psychic Website of God and love finder.)

Interestingly, an affirmation can require both kinds of being conscious. One way of looking at an affirmation is that the universe will mirror whatever website we are on. If we are on crummy ones then we will get crummy back. It helps to recognize where we are and click to love and God when needed.

Also affirmations can be the click tool itself. That the act of recognizing I am pure spirit and universally connected clicks on that website.

So, this meandering is further reinforcement that the right affirmational aim needs to be toward love and God, not so much on my needs. I am after all a spiritual being having a human experience. So aim for spirit is the new motto here at ConsciousSingles.com

~joel